Incessantly chatter in life
When coming on his number of people unfortunately, they can console others like the wise often; And come oneself, people convince oneself by patient analysis same while being very difficult often as same misfortune.
People's oldest knowing intelligently, but know that it is late and late and unwilling to do to settle, so the mediocre person that sympathize with but by oneself is numerous.
Some defects are put on others to seem insignificant, not worth mentioning; However, if these defects are put in oneself on one's body, it is very difficult to treat easily, even can't be forgotten in all one's life.
Say, do the thing of others' soul of injuring, probably forget thoroughly in an instant by oneself; And injury one's own thing that others say or do can remember being absolutely clear all one's life often, and unable to forgive.
His shortcoming on one's body can find out at one glance just like the black point on the blank sheet of paper; One's own very difficult discovery of shortcoming on one's body.
While seeing others' life, we always like to be the happiness of enlarging them, neglect the misfortune in their life, others' life happiness of feeling. While treating oneself and living, people always like narrowing one's own happiness, expand one's own trouble, so we always have too much discontent to one's own life.
When others make a scene in the public place because of carelessness, we often laugh out of court; And appear on one's body, we can from come out of in being awkward for a long time often in oneself as same situation.
Parents like chiding children with one's own life experience, the teacher likes educating students with one's own experience of going to school, it's a pity often few people listen to their preach. Until one day, a scene of history recurs.
meshowfashion See when others succeed, we will say, they are lucky; When their experience fails, we will say, they are not diligent. While succeeding by oneself, we will say this is one's own desserts for a courageous performance; If failed, the fault that we will find excuses to console oneself and say that all the environment.
A poor person thinks, they have everything, really let people envy when see the rich. A rich person thinks, he is penniless, but so happy when sees a poor person. In fact, we are that poor person or the rich always unsatisfied with life to oneself.
Seeing others falling in love and choosing whichever is to one personal advantage, we say secretly, wonder what kind oneself is long, still choosy there. When it's one's own turn to fall in love, always think no one can deserve oneself.
Clear in the wrong heart that makes by oneself sometimes, want to make some changes too, but if someone's good heart points out our mistake, we will often fly into a rage from shame, refuse to change.
While conflicting with people, it is always the other side by mistake, it was oneself that received the grievance.
We very apt to judge other parents educate children to to fault, it's one's own turn educate children, have often lost the basis judged.
